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Guest Post: The Value of a Doll

It was a hair emergency that brought us to the American Girl Store in Dallas, TX.

While the clothes, books and dolls were nice, the real reason for our visit was simple: Nee’s 2-year-old doll needed a hair intervention. After a couple of years of being braided and re-braided, the poor doll’s hair was a knotted mess. The sheen and soft crinkles that prompted me to purchase the doll were long gone. If $10 could restore that luster, I was willing to spend it.

We picked a hair style and watched as grown women fastened a styling drape around the doll’s shoulders before gently placing her into a miniature stylist’s chair. It was going to take a while to get the doll back into shape, so Nee and I began to look around.

We had reviewed the rules before we left home. I’d pay for the doll’s new hair style and Nee would buy a pair of replacement glasses for the doll. That was all we were spending, I said. Unfortunately my will power was no match for the money making behemoth that is the American Girl Store. Everything from cute outfits to the extensive “self-help” book section screamed: buy me.

“Just don’t tell your dad how much all this stuff cost,” I told Nee as we approached the bubbly cashier with two books, a doll outfit, glasses, and the bill for the doll’s new hair style.

“OK, I’ll hide my bag from Daddy,” she responded.

“No, it’s okay. He’ll understand,” I assured her, but I was still a bit nervous about telling Fred about how much we spent during our shopping spree. But when I looked at Nee’s smiling at her freshly styled doll, all of my apprehension disappeared.

The hour Nee and I spent in the American Girl Store allowed us to recapture some of her little girl innocence. It was a safe place  to play with dolls, pick ribbons, make crafts, and hang out with mom.

Suddenly, all of the money we spent seemed like a bargain.

Stay Strong,

KayEm

KayEm is Mocha Dad’s lovely wife. She also writes the blog Making It Last Forever.

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  • D&G's Mom

    awww…this makes me want to take my little girl and do some bonding….thanks for sharing!

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    I like it when my wife and daughter share some special time together.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_H7BTLHZHV62PZNBJV6PSPEQIZE Mandy

    You know, sometimes it's just worth it! I've enjoyed looking over your blog MochaDad. And KayEm, I'm headed over to check yours out now.

  • http://www.carmasez.com carma

    I'm a little out of the loop since I've got a son, but it seems like a wonderful mom/daughter bonding day and I'm sure Fred will eventually recover from the shock ;-) I like that these dolls are nice and wholesome and age appropriate unlike the Bratz Dolls….I hope Nee enjoys them for many years to come…

  • Bodaciousboomer

    Even though our daughter is 25, your story really took me back in time, thanks so much!

  • http://wwwjackbenimble.blogspot.com/ The JackB

    I have to stay away from that store. The dark haired beauty would find a way to siphon all of the cash from my wallet and make me feel like a hero while doing it.

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    I'm glad this this post was able to remind you of special moments with your daughter.

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    Nee just did a major purge of her Barbie dolls. I think her days of playing with dolls may soon be over.

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    My daughter's smile made it all worth it.

    • sell crafts

      really good post keep posting so that i can follow u ..

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    I'm glad that there isn't an American Girl store in our city. I'd be broke.

  • http://twitter.com/DaenelT Daenel Vaughn-Tucker

    Beautiful post. Nothing like being able to spend precious moments with your little girl while she's still a little girl, 'cause goodness knows they grow up way too fast. I say this as my oldest daughter has mapped out 2 weeks of college campus visits for us. *goes to weep in the closet*

  • http://mamalaw.com Justice Fergie

    I WISH we had an American Store in D.C. (ok, maybe I don't). Call me corny, but it just seems so…girly and magical ;)

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    You're right. Kids do grow up way too fast. I'm glad that my wife and I can share these special moments with my daughter while she is still our little girl.

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    According to my wife, the American Girl store is very girly and magical. You'd have a great time.

  • Leigh

    My daughter and I have been spending some quality “American Girl” time together making wee furniture for the little dolls. We can't wait to visit the Boston store this summer! http://www.americanmadegirldollbeds.com/

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    We bought my daughter's doll a bed from Target. It was a real bargain compared to the prices at the American Girl store.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_2RMJGPV5JZRSYZTYLTEVB5F5ZI CherylP

    Planning a charter bus trip to American Girl in October. Thanks for sharing your experience:)

  • Bodaciousboomer

    When your daughter loses tiny clothing for her doll does it make you crazy? Or was that just my hang up back in the day? Amanda had a Barbie= I'd move Heaven and earth to find a missing Barbie shoe!

  • Leigh1

    I told my daughter that she could have any bed that we make together. So far, she's changed her mind three times. MY fave for her was the trundle bed….she put her doll on the beds, and neatly folded her doll clothes into the trundle… http://AmericanMadeGirlDollBeds.com yes, that is my cutie-pie on the home page :-)

  • Bodaciousboomer

    Your right. She certainly is cute!

  • http://www.dreamsynch.com David Reamer

    Nice post. I like the mix of real world experience and insight.

  • Geneva Girl

    We went to the store in Manhattan two weeks ago. It costs $20 to get Addy's hair done. Not five minutes later my little angel tried to pop a hat onto the doll's head. I lost it! “I just paid $20 for that hair do. NOOOOO hats!!!” I screeched a bit too loudly because other moms started looking at me. I ran the doll back to the hair dresser who redid the bow.

    My husband was very well behaved throughout the trip. He was happy eating lunch with us and only asked once, “Do I want to know how much this is costing me?” He had his turn at losing it when my daughter bought the Ida Bean doll for Addy. “You're buying a doll for a doll?!?!?” When I reminded him that she was paying for it with birthday money from the relatives he just wondered off mumbling to himself in Jamaican patois. Fortunately, neither I nor the rest of the shoppers could understand what he was saying.

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    I need your husband to teach me that Jamaican patois.

  • Nancy

    The American Girl books and dolls are a wonderful quality investment. They are an investment in an innocent childhood and are so much better than little girls trying to be teenagers way too soon!

  • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

    I encourage my daughter to play with her doll because society tries to make kids grow up too soon. I want her to be a little girl as long as possible.

  • stephaine

    I am going to go to an American Girl shop on June 21 2011 because I am getting my first American Girl and because that’s the day that the new shop from Virginia is coming out 

    • http://www.mochadad.com mochadad

      Make sure to bring a ton of money.

  • Americangirllover

    I want to get Teaghan but American Girl is so exspensive, any tips? Its my first doll but it is super money. Help!

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