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What Moms Really Want for Mother’s Day

Buy me jewelry and die!

Each year, I’m at a loss as to what to get my wife, mother, and sister for Mother’s Day. My usual fallback gift is jewelry. All women like jewelry right? Wrong! My wife had to specifically request that I don’t buy her any jewelry ever again and I can’t remember the last time I saw my mother or sister wear any of the jewelry I bought them.

What’s a man to do?

This year, I decided to be proactive and ask other moms what they wanted for Mother’s Day. Fellas, if you’re in the same boat that I am, I recommend that you read these requests and apply them as needed. They may save your life.

What Moms Really Want for Mother’s Day

Honestly, I don’t want a single thing. If I was forced to choose then I will say a mini HP laptop (if money was no issue). Otherwise I would like a summer tolerant flowering plant in a pretty pot. I am simple like that. – Sheliza

I don’t WANT anything material. I feel silly asking for material things; I already have everything I want or need. When moms say they want peace and quiet, it’s true. I want a relaxing day, with my family, but I don’t want them to have any pressure to “make me have” a great day. I want to take a break from all the running around that I do, and CHILL OUT. Honest: that’s it! – Melisa

New furniture would do it for me! – Candie

No gift cards – gift cards suck when they come from your husband. And no flowers, because they just go ahead and die, and PLEASE no chocolate, and we both know why on that one. Instead, try to think about the things I like. . .if all else fails, which it usually does, just ask me – Maria (read her post Dear Husband, Mother’s Day is coming. I’ve made it easy for you. You’re welcome. Love Me. for more ideas)

I just want my husband to take care of the kids all day for Mother’s Day… who needs more “stuff”? Service is the way 2 my heart. – Sarah

Sleep and lots of it, and maybe a some jewelry – Jayde

A kid free day filled with a massage facial, margaritas and naps. – Wenylla

I want quiet time…and a trip to the beach with an ice cream cake. – mommaof4wife2r

For my husband and son to treat me special – to remember something I like – doesn’t need to involve money. To not be taken for granted ranks right up there at #1!! – Carma

I’d like to not have to make plans of any kind, schedule anyone to be on time any where. I want to sleep late and not be asked for anything. I will probably do a lot anyway, but I don’t want to be expected to. – Carol

Breakfast In bed and the ability to sleep in. A few hours to myself. A clean house. Dinner out with hubby and the kids. – Kelly

A DSLR camera. – Jenni

Sleep. A day off from the kids. No cooking, cleaning, or peanut butter anything. – Lauren

A day off with my guys where I don’t have to do *anything*. – Karen

A foot massage – Kathy

A weekend away with the girls to Sacramento or Vegas! – Lori

Some quiet time alone – a spa afternoon getting a massage, mani/pedi. – Maria

Stay Strong,

Question: Moms. what do you really want for Mother’s Day?

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  • http://www.momfiles.com Sheliza

    I am cracking up over your caption under wifey’s picture. You are a nut! I really loved reading the wide array of ideas you got from all the moms. I think that peace and quiet seems to be the trend ;-) Thanks for including me!
    .-= Sheliza´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

  • http://www.momfiles.com Sheliza

    I am cracking up over your caption under wifey’s picture. You are a nut! I really loved reading the wide array of ideas you got from all the moms. I think that peace and quiet seems to be the trend ;-) Thanks for including me!
    .-= Sheliza´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

  • http://www.carmasez.com carma

    Thank you for including my comment. It was interesting hearing everyone’s point of view, although I do wish I had asked for Jenni’s suggestion. The tiny point and shoot just does not do my blog pictures justice :D

    I hope your wife has a wonderful Mother’s Day – I know that your kids will make it a special one :-)

  • http://www.carmasez.com carma

    Thank you for including my comment. It was interesting hearing everyone’s point of view, although I do wish I had asked for Jenni’s suggestion. The tiny point and shoot just does not do my blog pictures justice :D

    I hope your wife has a wonderful Mother’s Day – I know that your kids will make it a special one :-)

  • http://www.hotchocolatecaramelmocha.com Stesha

    I would like to drink my coffee before it turns cold. That is all.

    Hugs and Mocha,
    Stesha
    .-= Stesha´s last blog ..We Hate Laundry =-.

  • http://www.hotchocolatecaramelmocha.com Stesha

    I would like to drink my coffee before it turns cold. That is all.

    Hugs and Mocha,
    Stesha
    .-= Stesha´s last blog ..We Hate Laundry =-.

  • http://thesuburbanscrawl.blogspot.com Melisa

    Thanks for including me!!!

    Happy Mother’s Day to your wife!
    .-= Melisa´s last blog ..Perseverance =-.

  • http://thesuburbanscrawl.blogspot.com Melisa

    Thanks for including me!!!

    Happy Mother’s Day to your wife!
    .-= Melisa´s last blog ..Perseverance =-.

  • http://worldofweasels.blogspot.com WeaselMomma

    My perfect gift for Mother’s Day would be a wife. By that I mean someone to do all the things for me that I do daily for my family. I would get to relax a little and not be charge of making sure things run smoothly. A mani/pedi while enjoying a glass of wine would be icing on top. No need to spend to spend big bucks, though. Having my eight and six year olds do this would be awesome. (they’re naturals)
    .-= WeaselMomma´s last blog ..The Black Eyed Peas Were Wrong =-.

  • http://worldofweasels.blogspot.com WeaselMomma

    My perfect gift for Mother’s Day would be a wife. By that I mean someone to do all the things for me that I do daily for my family. I would get to relax a little and not be charge of making sure things run smoothly. A mani/pedi while enjoying a glass of wine would be icing on top. No need to spend to spend big bucks, though. Having my eight and six year olds do this would be awesome. (they’re naturals)
    .-= WeaselMomma´s last blog ..The Black Eyed Peas Were Wrong =-.

  • http://www.africanamericanmom.blogspot.com African American Mom

    Buy me jewlery and die!……LOL!
    .-= African American Mom´s last blog ..My Favorite iPhone Apps =-.

  • http://www.africanamericanmom.blogspot.com African American Mom

    Buy me jewlery and die!……LOL!
    .-= African American Mom´s last blog ..My Favorite iPhone Apps =-.

  • http://www.makingitlastforever.com KayEm

    By the way, I do not recall saying don’t buy me jewelry. I think I said something like, you don’t have to “buy me” anything. I just want stress free time with the family – and no kitchen to clean up after dinner!

    My actual request this year was a family bike ride. However, hubby has to finish teaching 6 year old to ride his bike in order for this dream to come true. We still have a few more days…

    Keep hope alive!
    .-= KayEm´s last blog ..Marriage Requires Higher Education =-.

  • http://www.makingitlastforever.com KayEm

    By the way, I do not recall saying don’t buy me jewelry. I think I said something like, you don’t have to “buy me” anything. I just want stress free time with the family – and no kitchen to clean up after dinner!

    My actual request this year was a family bike ride. However, hubby has to finish teaching 6 year old to ride his bike in order for this dream to come true. We still have a few more days…

    Keep hope alive!
    .-= KayEm´s last blog ..Marriage Requires Higher Education =-.

  • http://hangingwithmrscooper.com hangingwithmrscooper

    My hubby always gets stuck on this one so I tell the kids what i want and then they tell him. I actually would love a Cape Cod bracelet. And if he doesn’t want to get that, then he can give me money and I can get what I want in case I change my mind. Money is always good.

  • http://hangingwithmrscooper.com hangingwithmrscooper

    My hubby always gets stuck on this one so I tell the kids what i want and then they tell him. I actually would love a Cape Cod bracelet. And if he doesn’t want to get that, then he can give me money and I can get what I want in case I change my mind. Money is always good.

  • http://www.rageagainsttheminivan.com Kristen

    I want my husband to take the kids away so that I can be at home in my own house . . . alone. Take a nap, catch up on tv, paint my toenails, whatever. Kind of sad that it’s come to that, but it’s the truth.

  • http://www.rageagainsttheminivan.com Kristen

    I want my husband to take the kids away so that I can be at home in my own house . . . alone. Take a nap, catch up on tv, paint my toenails, whatever. Kind of sad that it’s come to that, but it’s the truth.

  • http://nobubblegum.blogspot.com The Raisin Girl

    And that right there is why I never want to become a mom. I don’t want peace and quiet, time to myself, time with my friends, or a day without chores to be so rare that I’d ask for it as a gift.

    Not judging mothers…I think mothers are wonderful and I love and respect all three of mine. I just don’t think I could ever give that much of my time and energy to someone else knowing that the ultimate goal is for them to leave and be able to live without it. I saw what it did to my Mema when I moved out of the house. She was crushed, heartbroken. Took it as a personal affront to all the love she’d given me over the years. Don’t think I ever want to go through that.
    .-= The Raisin Girl´s last blog ..Children Should Not Be Brides =-.

  • http://nobubblegum.blogspot.com The Raisin Girl

    And that right there is why I never want to become a mom. I don’t want peace and quiet, time to myself, time with my friends, or a day without chores to be so rare that I’d ask for it as a gift.

    Not judging mothers…I think mothers are wonderful and I love and respect all three of mine. I just don’t think I could ever give that much of my time and energy to someone else knowing that the ultimate goal is for them to leave and be able to live without it. I saw what it did to my Mema when I moved out of the house. She was crushed, heartbroken. Took it as a personal affront to all the love she’d given me over the years. Don’t think I ever want to go through that.
    .-= The Raisin Girl´s last blog ..Children Should Not Be Brides =-.

  • http://www.realmendriveminivans.com PJ Mullen

    Jewelry isn’t a big thing in our house either. My wife’s favorite pair of earrings cost $20 because she is notoriously hard on them. So Mother’s Day will be easy with a nice meal that I make and a gift certificate for a pedicure because at 33 weeks pregnant she’s not able to do it herself anymore.
    .-= PJ Mullen´s last blog ..Cause I’m just a ray of frikin’ sunshine =-.

  • http://www.realmendriveminivans.com PJ Mullen

    Jewelry isn’t a big thing in our house either. My wife’s favorite pair of earrings cost $20 because she is notoriously hard on them. So Mother’s Day will be easy with a nice meal that I make and a gift certificate for a pedicure because at 33 weeks pregnant she’s not able to do it herself anymore.
    .-= PJ Mullen´s last blog ..Cause I’m just a ray of frikin’ sunshine =-.

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